If you have a problem in your sex life, asking for advice can be rife with embarrassment. We, as a society, are far too hard-wired to feel shame when it comes to openly discussing our bodies and our sexuality, especially with people of older generations. Which is a real pity, because it turns out, grandparents know a thing or two about sex. How else do you think your mom and dad happened?
In a YouTube series from Cut.com called ‘Grandmas Give Sex Advice’, three grandmothers named Sandra, Samantha, and Lou answer questions about sex and pleasure, drawing on their own lifetimes’ worth of experiences. And while the most popular, socially accepted idea of an older woman might be prim and proper, these girls have lived.
Take the first caller, who frequently ends up giving head to her partner for long periods of time. “I don’t have a problem giving a blowjob,” says Samantha, “but 40 minutes? Come on. That’s him looking forward to having her do all the work.” Meanwhile, Lou suggests a cutoff window of “15 minutes, tops.”
Elsewhere, a woman who only started having sex with her husband after they got married as